Digital Disengagement
I'm confessing upfront that I don't know where this experiment will lead, but I do know that I must do it.
I have been spending too much time engaged with the Internet lately. Between my work (Digital Marketing Agency) and my personal 'play' in the realms of Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn and Four Square, I have been constantly engaged with the digital world. I enjoy all of the connections that this interactive world allows. I have people who I know and value only via the web and others who share with me in the flesh-and-blood world and enhance that sharing via the virtual world. I enjoy the pace of interactions, the laughter, the positive massages and the extension of myself that Digital allows me.
My work involves some measure of interaction on the web, as well. Yet, when I really analyze my work-related time (and I have this week), very little other than email and research is critical to my goals vocationally.
I do enjoy the digital world and its constantly changing and ever teaching environment keeps me stimulated and growing, but I am paying a price.
Here's the rub. I've noticed some changes in my life - more my experience and enjoyment of life - that just won't do. I will not go into the details here, but will generalize my concern thus: I am not a natural child of the digital world and to continue to process and engage at such an intense and constant level is tiring and is changing the way I think, process and most importantly the way I care for myself.
So, here's my confession. I will be backing away from the Internet. If you are a regular reader here, you will likely not notice a difference in my blogging frequency. Blogging, as I practice it, is less about frantic, quick thought and more about thinking, writing, and creating. I'll not stop blogging. I am backing off of Twitter, Facebook and LinkedIn in terms of frequency of interactions. The same is true with my non-work related email interactions.
I will be blocking time (some of the 86,400 seconds of every day) for non-digital engagement, and limiting my online time with a timer. My commitment is to the next 21 days. Already, this weekend as refreshed my spirit as I have only spent 3 hours online and left my iPhone sitting by itself for hours at a time. I have spent the newly reclaimed time: hiking, reading, listening (just sitting and listening) to music and song lyrics, playing with my dogs, and talking face-to-face with family and friends. I like it.
Wish me success.
Photo taken October 2008, Appalachian Trail Hike
:) Hi I'm Silver (Reflections) ! I do wish you success.. i do understand and agree that sometimes we really have to find a balance in all things!
ReplyDeleteYou know that I support you in whatever decisions you think will help you in your life, my friend.
ReplyDeleteSilver - thank you for your visit and support.
ReplyDeleteAnon - thanks, friend.
Amen to this. And wow - only 3 hours online this weekend? You are my hero. I'm startled each time I pull away from the web by how much BETTER I feel, and always a little scared at how hard it is to disconnect. Life is more than type on a little screen. Thanks for the reminder and the ENCOURAGEMENT to do as you do. Lead the way.
ReplyDeleteIt took me a whole 8 hours (read..sleep time) to unplug last week on vacation. Didn't have a choice.. no internet. I didn't think about followers, fans, entries or posts. And it was wonderful. I think it was Thursday while on the beach in St. Maarten that the first thought of Twitter finally crossed my mind. And then, just like that, it was gone as I ran off to swim with my family.
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Kristen
It took me a whole 8 hours (read..sleep time) to unplug last week on vacation. Didn't have a choice.. no internet. I didn't think about followers, fans, entries or posts. And it was wonderful. I think it was Thursday while on the beach in St. Maarten that the first thought of Twitter finally crossed my mind. And then, just like that, it was gone as I ran off to swim with my family.
ReplyDeleteKudos, my friend!
Kristen
Kim, you know how I feel about this. I feel like we all need to back off from it all every once in a while. Real life calls... but we still feel the need to write, and share. It's our reality. We must follow what our hearts tell us we must do... so we can save our sanity.
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Dena - i'm doing what i can and i have you to thank for helping me focus.
ReplyDeleteKristen - so glad you dropped in and took the time to comment. i've just returned from a long weekend at the beach at a location where there is - heaven forbid - no internet! enjoyed it tremendously.
Nevine - yes. the energy with which i approach writing is much more grounded and useful than that which most often accompanies my Social Media activity. i write because every word enlivens me with it's departure.